I am/was an SAHD and on our 5th anniversary my wife asked for a divorce and refused to continue counseling. Does this make me angry and bitter – sometimes. I’ve been home with my two kids for 2.25yrs. I want what is fair for me as well as my kids. she wants phys. cust. but believes we should have joint. Money is our main sticking point we don’t have much asset-wise, mostly debt.

I say a 50/50 split is fair. we live in ma. and our county is supposedly very hard on college educated men. this is very disheartening because I have done what millions of women have done over the years which is to let my spouse’s career take priority. is it my turn? just venting..